Hi, I am 56 yrs old. I have lost most of my hair from surgeries and medications. The last 2 years I have stayed on the ranch never leaving because of the way I look. My husband does all the shopping for our household. If I need something for myself I go online. I use to be very sociable. I love being with friends, meeting new people. Now I am to embarrassed to see anyone. I need help finding a topper or wig. I have been grey since I was in my 20s. I'm a true salt and pepper. More pepper brown with plenty of salt. If there is anyone out there that would like to guide me , I am open to listening, following, looking and learning. I have researched so much I am confused and scared to purchase . Please help. Thank you, Beth